[Lauv Keiko]

Well, in all honesty...I find you rather attractive. I see nothing wrong with that haircut, in fact it looks good. The piercings are just added accessories that other people shouldn't mind about.
Anyways, I do think your husband is in the wrong here. He could've at least told that "friend" to not use those mean words to you. He didn't defend you in any way, so it only shows he agrees with that friend.
It was natural for you to be mad at him, considering you are married...what then were the vows you exchanged for?