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It doesn't help that your username is Quiet "Man" Cometh. ;) That threw me for a long time. :P

And I totally get where you're coming from. I had to spend a long time figuring that out for myself, spent plenty of time questioning, and ultimately came to the conclusion that yes, I AM a guy, but that it's okay for guys to like stereotypically-female things. I'm not about to say my conclusion has anything to do with your own self-exploration, but I know where you are.

Gender norms, like all stereotypes, are only things that you have to heed when your objective is to avoid controversy. But if you want to stir the pot? GO FOR IT.