[Gallowsraven]

The problem with a situation like this is that there are two sides to every story and a fine line to tread either way. Although it does sound like she's simply being aggressive, there could be a reason, maybe she doesn't realise how she's coming off to you? So if you bring this up it might be worth pointing out that you don't understand what you're doing wrong, especially as it's not in your job description to do what she's saying. as far as you know it's not your job to do this. Another thing to watch for is biting back, as if she's really as aggressive as i think she might be (from what you've said) she might try it.

Personally, i'd do this in private, a letter or something so that you have written proof of what you've said and nothing can be twisted. Be as clear and concise as possible. It would also be realy helpful if you had proof but i'm guessing that wouldn't be possible.