[Arsis_von_Neaera]

I just figured you'd appreciate the Sheol reference, considering they have an entire album devoted to it. I might also suggest Arsis. They are more along the lines of symphonic death metal, but represent a very significant metal foundation for me, and are highly sentimental.

I might also suggest bands like Nevermore and Mors Principium Est. I've never been a massive fan of Goth or Doom metal, I'm particular towards Death and Black. But I love meh some Industrial Goth. :)

Oh and Abigail Williams might something worth checking out. They can be... errr... scary sometimes, but make heavy enough music with enough instrumental synth and play for a good mixture.