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Arix 11-21-2010 09:11 PM

LGBT GSA (OPEN!!)
 
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Welcome, to the Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender - Gay Straight Alliance!
This thread/hangout is for both LGBT, but for GSA as well.
All genders and sexual orientations are welcomed here, and are free to give their opinion.
This does not mean haters, bashers, or bigots will be welcome. If you do not support
LGBT, please do not come in here and insult people.


Now, what exactly do I mean by LGBT GSA?
Well, I want this place to be for LGBT individuals to be able to come and hang out,
to feel free to be themselves, to express themselves and to ask for help from their
fellow LGBTers.
Also, I want straight people to feel ok with coming in and lending their support
to their LGBT friends! Or, to learn more about LGBT, if they have lived a life
where such things where not talked about.


So come in, and chat! Make friends, ask questions, participate in the discussions, and what have you.

NOTE: You may have noticed a thread similar to this on Solia. That is my thread. I'm am a co-owner of it and I checked with the other owner before making this here. If she joins Trisphee she will be one of the leaders of this thread as well. So do not say this thread is like the other thread and report me for plagiarism or something.

Arix 11-21-2010 09:13 PM

1.) Obey those who are the thread owners.
2.) All are welcome, please do not discriminate against someone because their gender, gender choice, or sexual preference differs from your own. Respect their choice.
3.) Follow all Terms of Service/Rules of Trisphee.
4.) Some cussing is accepted, but we don't want to see excessive amounts.
5.) Do not use discriminatory words. If you are using them in a non-discriminatory manner, than that is ok.
(For instance, "That is so gay" Is being discriminatory. Saying "He is gay" is just being non-politically correct.)

Arix 11-21-2010 09:16 PM

(If there are any terms not on here or that are on here and are incorrect, feel free to contact me.)

General Terms

LGBT - Stands for Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender. This is the most common acronym used to represent those of different sexualities and lifestyles, even they aren’t always included in the acronym itself. If we tried to fit everything, it would wind up something like: LGBTTTIQQA even then people are still left out.
GSA - Stands for Gay Straight Alliance. This term is used to describe to signify a place where straight and cisgendered people and those of different sexualities and genders gather together as allies and supporters of each other.
Queer - An individual that supports gay/lesbian/trans/etc rights
Cross-dresser - dresses as the opposite gender and may or may not identify as transgender; done possibly for personal satisfaction: be it sexual, emotional, or financial
Transsensual - A person who falls in love with someone who is transgender and/or gender variant, MtF or FtM; some transgender people view people who identify as such as having a fetish and/or objectifying them; tranny chaser, admirer, or chaser can be used (though these are almost always used for those who objectify and/or fetishize trans*people)
Homophobia - Fear and hatred of LGBT people.
Homophobe - Used to describe someone who has homophobia, doesn’t support LGBT rights, or dislikes LGBT people for whatever reason. Sometimes used as an insult.
In The Closet - This expression is used to describe someone who is hiding or has not announced their sexual orientation or gender identity.
Out Of The Closet/Open - Used to describe someone who has announced and come to terms with their sexual orientation or gender identity and is no longer hiding in the metaphorical closet.

Sexual Orientation Terms
Questioning - Someone who is exploring their sexual or gender identity. Also used for someone who is unsure of their gender or sexuality.
Heterosexual - Sexually attracted to the opposite gender and/or sex. Also defined as “Straight”.
Homosexual - Sexually attracted to the same gender and/or sex. Also known as “Gay/Lesbian”.
Bisexual - Sexually attracted to both males and females Also known as “Bi”.
Pansexual/Omnisexual - Sexually attracted to all genders and sexes [eg: male, female, gender queer etc]; personality is more important to attraction than sex or gender identity.
Trisexual - Attraction in men, women and a third party (oneself, animals, or vegetables)
Autosexual - Attraction to oneself
Sequential Bisexual - someone who occasionally has an attraction to one gender, the other gender, or sometimes both
Pomosexual - A person who avoids or rejects sexual orientation labels
Demisexual - Someone who only experiences sexual attraction towards someone they are extremely close to.
Asexual - Having no sexual desire or activity
Demiromantic - Someone who only experiences romantic feelings with someone they are extremely close to.
Gray-A - Part of the asexual spectrum in that they only experience sexual attraction, but have a low or non-existent sex-drive.
Aromantic - One who does not experience romantic attraction.
Biromantic - Experiences romantic attraction to both male and female gender/sex.
Homoromantic - Experiences romantic attraction to those of the same gender/sex.
Heteroromantic - Experiences romantic attraction to those of the opposite gender/sex
Panromantic - Experiences romantic attraction to all genders and sexes.
Polysexual - Attraction to more than two sexes or genders but not all sexes or genders.
Antisexual - One who believes that sex is immoral, wrong, and should be avoided at all costs. Antisexuals can be sexual or asexual.


Gender Terms

Transsexual - when gender identity doesn’t match assigned gender; generally medically-transition tracked; generally their gender fits in the gender binary (ie: either man or woman)
Transgender - someone whose gender identity does not match one's assigned sex; often used as an umbrella term for transsexual and gender variant people (cross-dressers' inclusion is a point of much contenton btw)
Gender expression - how masculine/feminine someone acts
Gender/sex role - the role, assinged by one's society, forced upon a person based on their gender and/or sex. Including, in the US, boys wear pants, girls play with dolls, men are tough, women are emotional, etc.
Cisgender - Someone whose gender identity, assigned sex, and gender expression/role matches.
Cissexed - Someone whose gender identity and assigned sex matches.
FTM, Female-to-Male, F2M - A female-assigned person who identifies on the masculine and/or male spectrum
MTF, Male-to-Female, M2F - A male-assigned person who identifies on the feminine and/or female spectrum
Assigned sex - the sex assigned to a person at birth, may or may not identify with this sex
Gender identity - what gender someone identifies as; may or may not fit within the gender binary
Gender binary - the binary system of gender/sex that s seen as a truth in many societies (including the US)
Transvestite - old term used for all gender variant, transsexual, and cross-dressing people. Rarely used now, but generally has a sexual connotation when used
New Half - born as one sex, but has gone through surgery and are now both
Gender Queer/Androgyne - identifies as either both genders, another gender, or no gender
Intersex - A person whose sex is hard to assign based on chromosomes, genitalia, primary sex organs, etc. Doctors often give such infants cosmetic surgeries (with or without the parents' permission or knowledge) to make the infant appear as a typical male or female
Hermaphrodites - Having both working sexual organs; generally seen as offensive and intersex is often preferred
She Male - An MtF who gets top surgery and then stops with the transition, meaning they have breast implants and that is it. The term has also been known to be used for an MtF sex worker and/or porn actress. Generally seen as offensive and derogatory.
Third gender/third sex - individuals who are considered to be neither women nor men, as well as the social category present in those societies who recognize three or more genders
Neutrois - Someone who identifies with neither physical sex or any sort of gender.
Genderfluid - Someone with a dynamic gender. They feel male one day, and female another day. Sometimes it's a mix of two or more genders.
Bigender - Someone who feels they are two different genders. This can either occur at once, or the person may fluctuate between the two.
Two Spirit - Native American term for someone who has the spirit of a man and the spirit of a woman at once. Those who were Two Spirit traditionally held roles of both males and females in tribes. Many spiritual leaders were Two Spirit.

Arix 11-21-2010 09:18 PM


Fiction Books
Rainbow Boys by Alex Sanchez
Rainbow High by Alex Sanchez
Rainbow Road by Alex Sanchez
Bound in Flesh by David Thomas Lord
Keeping You a Secret by Julie Anne Peters
Luna by Julie Anne Peters
Am I Blue? Coming Out From the Silence, A collection of Short Stories. Edited by Marion Dane Bauer
Drag queen by Robert Rodi
Empress of the world by Sara Ryan
The Rules for Hearts by Sara Ryan
Hard Love by Ellen Whittlinger
Love and Lies by Ellen Wittlinger
Between Mom and Jo by Julie A Peters
Boy meets Boy by David Levithan
The Realm of Possibility by David Levithan
Wide Awake by David Levithan
Middlesex by Jeffrey Eugenides
What Happened to Lani Garver by Carol Plum-Ucci
Parrotfish by Ellen Wittlinger
Becoming Alec by Darwin S. Ward
How Beautiful The Ordinary; Twelve Stories of Identity Edited by Michael Cart


Nonfiction Books
The Bisexuals Guide to the Universe by Nicole Kristal and Mike Szymanski
In Your Face, Stories from the Lives of Queer Youth by Mary L. Gray
The Bisexual Option by Fritz Klein, MD
Lesbian and Bisexual Identities by Kristen G Esterberg
Bi Any Other Name, Bisexual People speak Out by Loraine Hutchins and Lani Kaahumanu
Whipping Girl by Julia Serano
Just Add Hormones; An Insiders Guide to the Transsexual Experience by Matt Kailey
Becoming a Visible Man by Jamison Green
What Becomes You by Aaron Raz Link & Hilda Raz
One Teacher in 10; LGTB Educators Share Their Stories by Edited by Kevin Jennings
My Gender Workbook: How to Become a Real Man, a Real Woman, the Real You, or Something Else Entirely by Kate Bornstein
Gender Outlaw: On Men, Women and the Rest of Us by Kate Bornstein
GenderQueer: Voices From Beyond the Sexual Binary Edited by Joan Nestle, Riki Wilchins, Clare Howell
She's Not the Man I Married: My Life with a Transgender Husband by Helen Boyd
My Husband Betty: Love, Sex, and Life with a Cross dresser by Helen Boyd
True Selves: Understanding Transsexualism--For Families, Friends, Coworkers, and Helping Professionals by Mildred L Brown and Chloe Ann Rounsley
She's Not There: A Life in Two Genders by Jennifer Finney Boylan



Movies
Brokeback Mountain (US)
The Birdcage (US)
The Adventures of Priscilla, Queen of the Desert (Australia)
MILK (US)
Summer Storm (Germany)
Camp Out (US)
Twist (Canada)
Memento Mori (korean)
Wishing Stairs (korean)
Whispering Corridors (korean)
Saving Face (chinese american)
Aa Vie en Rose (french)
Transamerica (US)
Breakfast on Pluto (scottish)
Grey Matters (US)
Boys Don’t Cry (US)
Southern Comfort (US)
Were the World Mine (US)
Boy I Am (US)
TransAmerica (US)
TransGeneration (US)
Hedwig and the Angry Inch (US)
But, I’m a Cheerleader (US)
Out at the Wedding (US)
Big Eden (US)
East Side Story (US)
Say Uncle (US)
Patrik, Age 1.5 (Sweden)
Philadelphia (US)
Prayers for Bobby (US)
Saved! (US)
Different (US)

The LOGO channel is a good place for LGBT movies and TV shows.

TV Shows
Queer as Folk
The L Word
Rick and Steve
Noah's Arc
Will and Grace




LGBT Bookstores
Though bigger bookstores are beginning to carry LGBT books, LGBT specific bookstores are still where to get the best in LGBT literature and films. Here's a list of quite a few of them.

A Different Light - 489 Castro St. San Francisco, CA 94114
Calamus Bookstore - 92 South St. Boston, MA 02111
Common Language Bookstore - 317 Braun Court Ann Arbor, MI 48104
Gay's the Word - 66 Marchmont Street London UK
Get Booked - 4640 South Paradise Road #15 Las Vegas, NV 89169
Giovanni's Room - 345 South 12th Street, Philadelphia, PA 19107
The Lavender Inkwell - 304 North McBride St. Syracuse, NY 13203
Little Sister's Book & Art Emporium - 1238 Davie Street Vancouver, B.C., Canada
Malaprop's Bookstore/Cafe - 55 Haywood Street Asheville, NC 28801
Now Voyager Bookstore - 357 Commercial Street Provincetown, MA 02657 (Closed for Season. Opens April 2010)
OutLoud! Bookstore - 1703 Church Street Nashville, TN 37203
Out Word Bound - 625 North East Street, Indianapolis, IN 46202
Outwords - 2710 North Murray Avenue Milwaukee, WI 53211-3645
Outwrite Bookstore & Coffeehouse - 991 Piedmont Ave NE Atlanta, GA. 30312
Relatively Wilde - 42 South Broadway Denver, CO 80209-1506
Unabridged Bookstore - 3251 N. Broadway Chicago, IL. 60657
White Rabbit Charlotte - 920 Central Avenue Charlotte, NC 28204
White Rabbit Raleigh - 300 West Hargett Street Suite 56 Raleigh, NC 27601



LGBT Organizations
PFLAG
GLSEN

Arix 11-21-2010 09:20 PM

Reserved just in case.

Arix 11-21-2010 09:23 PM

Reserved just in case I need it.

Arix 11-21-2010 09:24 PM


Juneberry 11-21-2010 09:27 PM

It says open so I'm joining in by saying hello to fellow people of the LGBT/GSA community~! Hi~! -steals this post-

Oh, and I'm a biromantic homosexual if it matters. I'm both asexual and lesbian. Yay for mixtures~! 8D

Arix 11-21-2010 09:32 PM

Well I'm a Two Spirit (not on the list. I need to add it.) person who likes people no matter the sex or gender of said person.

Juneberry 11-21-2010 09:36 PM

I've never heard of a two spirit! That's a new vocabulary word for me, yay~

Did you know there are multiple types of asexuality? There are so many sexualities in general in the world, it's quite interesting.

Arix 11-21-2010 09:44 PM

I prefer the term Two Spirit (which I just added) because it comes from a society that accepted and even cherished those who were both man and woman internally.

How do you mean different types? Do you mean how people can be not sexually attracted to others but emotionally attracted?

There's so many genders as well. There are no limits to the human mind. It's fascinating and exciting. People try and limit themselves so much and put themselves in boxes. It's sad sometimes.

Juneberry 11-21-2010 09:47 PM

Exactly. For example, I'm biromantic and lesbian. While I'm sexually attracted only to girls, I can feel affection emotionally towards a guy or a girl equally. Some people have no sexual interest but can be hetero-romantic, bi-romantic or homo-romantic. It just means you have an emotional connection rather than sexual~ I find that part rather interesting. My friend is asexual and transgender, so he helped teach me about it.

Arix 11-21-2010 09:56 PM

See I say I'm attracted just to people no matter the sex and gender because if I explained exactly what I liked it just gets confusing. I'm sexually attracted to all sexes but I'm much more attracted to the male gender. It takes me more and I'm much more picky when it comes to those of the female gender. It's just easier to say that I'm attracted to people but I still have a type I like more then other types.

I learned a lot by having this thread on Solia. I discovered my own gender thanks to it actually. I love learning about people and how they act and feel.

Juneberry 11-21-2010 10:00 PM

I agree- it is a fascinating topic. Unfortunately I have to go for the night, but...I hope you can tell me more about what you learned tomorrow~ Kay? Sorry. It's late ;-;

Arix 11-21-2010 10:11 PM

Okay. Bye! *waves*

*waits for more people to post*

Blaine 11-21-2010 10:58 PM

WHERE DID YOU LEARN THESE WORDS?


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