That's all too true choco

sorry for butting in but i know what both sides are like and have been called a bully by people who wouldn't know what a bully was XD it is all the level of tolerance and understanding you are given and grew up withthat dictates what you see as bullying

Well really everything is seen differently by every person.
Meanings if words are different, ect
its really hard to say something is a fact really

Like my definition if love might be different than yours
and that's okay really but in some cases its not okay

Pog does not believe in love!!!! XD and then suddenly I sing john Lennon.

But really it is one thing to be idealistic and another to be realistic. The more I think about facades the more it makes me think about darwinism and what is accepted by cultures and how america is kinda just fucked up and praises the all mighty green back.

I don't believe in love, at least not mutual love. I learned that the hard way.

I believe you can love can take many forms

Like I love pogs and choco and you guys. You're my friends and I care so deeply for you.
I want to help and protect you and be there for you
I want to make you smile and laugh

I see most things as a give and take thing. Whereas...say my entire family...if they can find anything else in the universe to do, they won't be around me though if they EVER need me...I'm always there. That's how most things seem to go in my life so...yeah. I'm done with it really.

So we all have really different opinions. ^^
it just goes to show~

I "loved" a guy once. We were dating. He apparently didn't feel the same since he cheated on me-his reason? He was horny and she was there (this she was one of my friends...that he went and picked up and brought to his place -.-)

Sadly that happens more often than we'd like to think

People think cheating is okay when its not :/

Gallbby. Im more pessimistic because then I don't get my hopes up
or feel let down

I would've rather we broken up first. Still wouldn't be happy.

It wasn't like we were together long either...but I was happy. Haven't been that in awhile now.

Well like they say... there is someone out there for you.
I mean I believe that. But idk if you do.
Don't give up though. Not all people are like that

I don't believe in that, not anymore. I know what that feeling was around him, and personally...I don't want to experience it ever again due to the pain if the relationship ends.

gall, as an asexual i think your opinion sucks X''D i love deeper than most anyone i know and with a permenence that cannot compare to reason X''''D on the same note however it makes me want to convert you<3

Pog is one of those silly dreamers. While I would like to find love it may not happen. It is like investment banking sometimes. And well I am not down for all that active looking. For now I have friends they fill the voids left behind and since I have no sexual desire I do not actively pursue a mate. It is however something I dream about having, a wedding on the beach, some one that I can do silly things with, a guy I can admittedly watch porn with or draw him nude.

But you can't let one bad investment ruin your out look. Some times its worth the risk.

Well... im sorry he ruined it for you..

But... isn't it worth it? to feel that way? To be happy?
Instead of constant misery...
I think its worth it. you're putting yourself in anothers hands.
You're trusting them with your love. Some people aren't worth it
But don't give up. Its just means that person wasn't the one

But then again, who am I to tell you these things?
Even though I barely know you I want you to be happy.

I have no interest anymore in dating, or getting married, never wanted children...I don't even have an interest in trying to make new friends...especially after what one person said...but he happened after I didn't care about making new friends so yeah -shrugs-

poor yuu, it is a life outside that of our species' default desires, well can you find happiness in solitude?

I am curious what did he say?

): but you never know if someone will change your life for the better...

My life was recently changed by a person id never thought id be friends with
Im so glad we became friends
and im slowly starting to regard him as a best friend. Because I talk to him everyday about everything. I can tell him things ive never told anyone before ever. Ect

I mean... its all about risks and taking chances
But if you don't want that's okay. Im sorry for talking about it like crazy then haha

*le slides in*
can I join in?

Owo lauv! //huggles
hows you tonight?

I don't really find happiness this way...just less misery really.

Okay I must tell the story.

I am one of those people that if I have nothing to say, I tend to say nothing...which is why I lurk a lot on websites. I have nothing to say. So he was complaining that he has to starts convos and all and blah blah blah. Well, I have nothing to start them with, so I don't start them (because the hi whats up -answer- conversation pisses me off...cause it's over so quickly) and he's like I don't need any part time friends (This was after I'd only seen him twice) and all this other crap. The second he said part time friends...that was the end of it. I may not have anything to say, but I am there. I may not be very useful or anything, but I can be there and listen at least.

Some people are born as listeners.
Its sad that he couldn't understand that though...

what are you guys talking about? o3o

*reads back a few pages*

I know. He was a cool guy until he went that route. He also played the victim, or tried to while my cousin was over. At this point I had seen him twice-once for a short period at my friend's wedding...and one time when he came over. I knew him for like a month. And I'm one of those people, I'm okay with being alone quite a bit and not talking to anyone...I think he was the clingy type which is essentially the opposite of me and it didn't work well obviously.

Lots of things xD reading back might help but its lots of long posts

Edit:

I dislike when people play the victim when they are at fault :/
He sounds like someone who you should def just avoid
its for the best that you're not in contact with him then

But sometimes opposites attract

oh sweetie, unless your attractions are founded on wanting to get **** in the **** you would have them anyway, there is no escaping the human condition *cuddles*

Well, the people that are like me, such as the ex that cheated on me...ended badly. Then there is the opposite which didn't even get to the friend point. I don't think I could date anyone who was clingy. I would kill them. I have that feeling.

-confused by choco-

Well I mean there's lots of inbetweens and other things
"Everyone is different. No two people are not on fire"

Yeah, well, I'm no longer interested in trying -shrugs-

Consider the pool of men around here, they would just cheat on me in the end if not worse.

so a quick review, from twinkies(food) to bullies, to how we understand things to love, to boyfriends cheating.

now, where should I start? xD

Ah that sucks
Would you try again if you moved and the place had decent guys?

Its just crazy lauv
just jump in anywhere haha!

start with twinkies XD i missed that one

asami, maybe yuu is happer without a lover?

I don't know. I don't think I'll ever move away. It's the curse of this place. If you're here past age 18, if you move away, you come back. Everyone has pretty much that I know of.

Im just discussing xD
I hope yuu doesn't take this as pushy
Im not trying to at all
just having fun with the Convo ^^

Im tired of only having short convos about nothing!
Im just really into this

Sorry if I come off the wrong way


Edit:
oh yeah that does happen doesn't it?

You're not coming off as pushy yet. Cause if you do I will be like I NO WANNA TALKS NO MORE ABOUT THING! -rawrz-