I love my Mom but she has battered women's syndrome horribly. She is engaged to a guy she has dated for five years and is scared to sell her other home because she wants to have a home incase he leaves her. She also refuses to have a joint bank account or to put his name of her cars or home.

She also doesn't know we are engaged because she would flip shit. Why we are leaning on a two bedroom, incase we would break up.

No this man would be her third husband when they got married. My mother owns two houses and lives in a third that her fiancé owns. My dad is dead, and between my dad and her first husband she is afraid of a lot of things that comes with marriage.

She picks the wrong type of men is really the problem.

And she didn't like Alpha's dad cause his Dad is a d**k. There for she doesn't like Alpha.

Yeah, I have been on that rant for 2 years.... but eh that statement at the end of it is his Mom is a sweetheart and willing to cosign on the lease so I really don't need her consent but I would prefer it. Because otherwise I see a court battle to gain access to my left over payments from where the state paid my Mom to make sure that I was taken care of and they were suppose to go to me when I turned 18.... I have 20 K in the bank that I can't touch.

What happened to fuzzy cuffs and the snuggles?

Congrats on the position Arsis!

She never gave it to me she had me sign it over to an account that she swore i will gain access to once I finish college. That is seeming further and further away since I now need to go to grad school.

Ummm by that time it will be 15 k and that it the problem, she won't tell me what she means.

Forensic Anthropology, I am wanting to study bone trauma from breaks falls and torsion.