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the diary

should i close ix?

So im making food for old people

well the elderly do eat too XD

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@Choc, I think that it's better for me to talk about it. I don't have an outlet whatsoever so the more I hide it, the more depressed I get.

@Asa: Ooh~ what are you cooking?

well you can talk to me, i might not always have something to say but i can still listen

I know but id rather do chores than this..
A Lot lauv x'D they eat a lot.

refresh the page, i have to click on your name to pm you

start at the part you start at when you are the most upset

X'D oh asami

nadda, are you a hidden user?

just pm zosa ok? i can't get you up

Seriously. We are making a crap ton of food and each person gets so much

>n>; as long as they eat it does it matter?

Also i have to stay here till 1 u.u not fun man

Im just saying.
Usually my gma cant eat more than a sandwich
Im not saying its a bad thing but man this is getting insane

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well, okay.

so here's the whole thing.
I'm a fresh graduate, two months after my graduation I got me a job as an english tutor for koreans. I earned money mainly to give myself confidence and to help out my family with all the expenses in this house. Everything went well even if my sister(special case) doesn't have a job and that her twin was still looking for a job also my brother wasn't earning well. So basically, me, my brother and parents are helping out each other with bills and stuff at home even when I and my brother earned less.
My parents have jobs enough to sustain us for years.

Then I got a new job, higher salary than my old job (I'm a tech support for comcast, btw). However, it seemed like I'm the only person paying all the bills for this family and the rest of them are doing their job yet I see and feel no contribution at all. It felt as if I've all the responsibility for this family.
My dad told me once when I was in college, "I won't ask money from you when you get a job. You save what you earn and take master's degree."
But what's happening now is that he asks money from me EVERY salary day, and he sometimes would force me to give it to him, and to think he has a job and he also holds mini business. That should hold him up and not have him running after me for money.
I hate it because he has lied to me a dozen times just so he could get 20% from my salary and he would guilt-trip me into it sometimes. He would also act sickly and shit and he knows I am easily taken away with it. He has hit me a couple of times already because I acted like a total bitch to him. He should know by now that I DISLIKE him, no wait, I LOATHE him. He's so insensitive.
He always tells me to stop wasting my money on useless shit...in my head, well if you stop bumming money off of me then I'd have saved a thousand bucks already and invested it on my plans for higher education, asshole!

until now, I'm still not talking to him. I posted in my facebook profile asking my friends to suggest me a good place to live, because I'm fucking leaving this shithole, for real.

have you tried giving it a week for him to see what an asset you are or is that not a viable option? can you couch-surf for a paycheck?

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not even possible because he always fishes out money from me EVERY week.
I kept telling him I've no money, but the ass won't stop.

and couch-surf? O_o

spend a few days on a friend's couch

would you be put on the lease?

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I suppose he would, which I wouldn't mind. Most probably he'll just have me pay him 15% of my monthly salary.

and I spend 75% of my salary when I'm home.

if you are not on the lease he could get in trouble

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he lives with his mom, who's not around 60% of the time xD;
but hopefully he'd understand me when I tell him the reason why I need a new place.

hopefully, but if not what is your backup plan?

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well, as much as possible, avoid everyone in this house. Or wait, gather them all up and tell them what I feel.
If that's impossible then, back up plan 2 is to stay here, but never open my wallet no matter how many times they ask.

get a deposit account that you cannot withdraw from? if you cant have it they can't have it, set it for like 6 months or something

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I think that's a better idea. I might have to go around the city first then ask what I need to sign up for, how many months until I can get my shit.

and you're right, if I can't have it, then they can't. I mean, this is mine anyways.

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I hate the fact that I'm the one spending shit for them and they've the guts to be mad at me for not complying to my "obligation"
fuckers.

-flops back in- eh.. what I miss? o.o;

now /that/ i can't say anything with either way ^^; that is a culture thing, i grew up with the idea that if my father lived long enough i would take care of him until he died

hi Lauv. <3
and ty.. my feet are killing me.. had to run out into town to pick a few things up. ^ ^

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@choc: It's a thing when your parents are really old and can't help themselves. Then yes, I would take care of them even if I'm not obliged.
But, they're still alive, kicking and earning money.

next time take a bus? X''D

lol.. the bus I need is never around when I'm leaving or entering town. XD but I ran into my friend on the way and had a nice chat, he wants to hang out tomorrow.

:/ Eh.. I was supporting my parents a few years ago.. my dad lost his job and I was the only earning a wage so most of my money went for bills and food. Some people thought it wasn't right that my dad sponged money off of me but either give it to him or he would throw a tantrum in the store.. < . <

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well, your dad has a reason why he needs your help, because he lost his job.., but still not a good reason to always depend on you

while my dad still has his job yet he bums money off of me. asshole.