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Yeah. I can't believe how lightly people take things like marriage and kids. Meanwhile, there are people who cannot legally be married, who are in life-long relationships...
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╔═════════════════════════════════╗ (｡◕‿◕｡) Those people know what the meaning of a relationship is though. Most married couples don't it seems. They just take advantage of it. I'm like the only person in my family who is truly in love with the person I married. My one aunt and uncle are bastards and she only cares for herself and not him and treats him like crap but for some reason they are still married after over 30 years. I have another uncle who married his third wife and they might be in love, don't know really. Then I have this other aunt and uncle who are married but they don't even live together. They lived together for over 7 years and became common law man and wife, then they got married by going to a judge and after a few years, she moved up north to build their house and he was gonna finish off the year at his job then move out, but something happened and now they don't really see each other at all anymore but won't get divorced. I think he cheated on her, but they really should get divorced if they can't even stay in the same zip code as the other. He barely even goes out there to see her. Not even every weekend or every other, too far of a drive for him he says. My grandparents stayed married til they died, I think they loved each other even though he treated her like crap all the time, they were born in the 20s and back then guys were raised with treating women like their property and my grandma, the sweet person she was, dealt with it no matter how much it hurt her. But when she died, he found out he had testicular cancer and didn't do a damn thing about it, he slowly painfully died. Thinking back about that, I think he did that because he missed her too much and didn't want to go on without her, even though the entire time she was alive he took her for granted. I might not of been married for as long as my family but I seem to know more about relationships than everyone else does. We both agreed that we won't get divorced so we are gonna make sure we work everything out. We don't want to become a stastic. Since we both come from broken families and our parents don't know the meaning of love, we have a really high chance of being divorced ourselves and we don't want that. ╚═════════════════════════════════╝ |
Aw, you sound wise.
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╔═════════════════════════════════╗ (｡◕‿◕｡) I spent my entire life watching people. I had no one to play with growing up so I would go outside and just watch how people acted. I became great at telling the type a person was within of seeing them for a second. And I never was wrong lol. And growing up I just watched my family more than I did anything else so that helped being able to figure things out better about life and relationships. ╚═════════════════════════════════╝ |
Aw... I'm not too excellent at reading types.
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╔═════════════════════════════════╗ (｡◕‿◕｡) It takes years of having no life pretty much lol. ╚═════════════════════════════════╝ |
I have lived years without a life according to some terms, but I think a certain sensibility is needed to start with, regardless of how much time one spends watching people. I watch people, but only observe and see that there are many types of people, not so much able to predict things...
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╔═════════════════════════════════╗ (｡◕‿◕｡) I watched them for so long I was able to tell what will happen with alot of situations. I really had no life growing up. ~_~ ╚═════════════════════════════════╝ |
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I see, haha. My friend has a lot better sense with people than I do.
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╔═════════════════════════════════╗ (｡◕‿◕｡) Hehe that was so true when I was younger. At least you have us Echo~ That's good Femme. ╚═════════════════════════════════╝ |
All I really do is go on the computer, watch t.v., and knit. And listen to music of course.
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╔═════════════════════════════════╗ (｡◕‿◕｡) For me recently I've been spending all my time on my computer, it helps give me something to do instead of laying around the house depressed. ~_~ I really need to cuddle with my kitties more often and force myself to cross stitch again. It might actually help me feel a bit better. ╚═════════════════════════════════╝ |
Such things do have therapeutic value, for sure.
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Cuddling kitties is very therapeutic. <3
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╔═════════════════════════════════╗ (｡◕‿◕｡) Ya it is. I realized that yesterday that I calm down alot when I just sit there starring at my cats or petting them. I always start to feel better. They definately are a good reason to get better when I'm upset. Perfect medicine hehe. ╚═════════════════════════════════╝ |
I just like the fluffy kittens X3
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╔═════════════════════════════════╗ (｡◕‿◕｡) They are so nice to shove your face into them and just sit there. I do that all the time. ╚═════════════════════════════════╝ |
I just love to cradle them like a baby
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I want some kitties. v.v
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I want kitties just for that purpose but my apartment doesn't accept kittens DX
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My parents don't want to have kitties.
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Aw, it sucks that your apartment can't have them... gah it would really suck to have to cut up your family to live in an apartment...
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Yeah. I would not want to live in an apartment that did not allow cats.
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╔═════════════════════════════════╗ (｡◕‿◕｡) I'd either hide the fact I have cats if I really needed a place to live or just wait til I got one that said ok to them. I can't live without my babies. They are the only things that keep me sane at times. ╚═════════════════════════════════╝ |
Considering I would most likely have dogs, generally would not be best for me to live in an apartment. Sigh. Not that I particularly want to live in an apartment, as I would prefer to be a little bit more rural, but...
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I have pet rocks and any apartment accepts them XD
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Pffff they don't respond to you either.
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but they are the perfect pets XD
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How can it be a perfect pet if it doesn't give you kisses eh?
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well I can give them kesses and I don't need to feed them, clean them, and worry if they are going to die THEY'LL OUTLIVE ANYONE
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None of the responsibility of a pet, but none of the fun either xP.
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I don't like the responsibilities
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Yeah, I don't love that part, but I do love my dogs!
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╔═════════════════════════════════╗ (｡◕‿◕｡) Lol Echo that is the best and easiest pet. But I still enjoy my kitties more. ╚═════════════════════════════════╝ |
I know I found my first on my mom's front yard and the second one I found was at a party when we designed our rocks XD
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╔═════════════════════════════════╗ (｡◕‿◕｡) That seems neat. Gotta make them look nice, how can you have a pet rock look plain? Ewww lol. ╚═════════════════════════════════╝ |
I painted my first one with eyes and a smile face
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