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I would go through your stuff see what you can sell, see what can be stored with your family and then go from there. Set aside two weeks worth of clean things including professional clothing that way you can go on interviews or see how much you can condense.
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Sadly if I were you I would plan to live out of the back of a car for a few days. Worse case scenario that is what I see happening since your family it seems can not even afford to let you have a roof over your head while you search for a job. >/ which makes me miffed. I am sure your mom even if she can not directly support you can house you from the elements at least until you get on your own. Same for your dad or some one they might know. A spot on the floor cost nothing, especially if you can feed yourself off sandwiches.
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sweetie, there /is/ n more family, they have no place either it is all only what i am willing to cram in the trunk of the car
sweetie, taking from my mom is taking from my sis and i won't do that, and my dad is worse off than i am. the car is a certainty and no sandwiches |
*blinks* Hmm...I see what it is.
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u-u this is why I refuse to live out in the middle of nowhere with out a way to get to my family. Are they able to get an apartment? Your parents don't have to be married in order to continue to live together. If they can find a place that they can split together it would work. It would be far cheaper and again you would have a roof over your head.
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Also your folks don't have any friends that can lend them a hand or fall back on? Even a coworker?
Edit: The other thing is, if your grandmother is not too old, I would go live with her for a time being. |
sweetie my mom makes /just/ enough to support herself and my sister no more, not even if they try, my father is a 300 dollar negative sink and i am a full sink with no job, my mom cannot afford to feed me and my father she cannot afford the utilities the only thing i can beg of her is to take my cat so he won't die, he is too old and too easily stressed
we have been doing that for the last several months and most of my father's friends are dead |
we ran out of charity pog, there is no more
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So what is this posting contest on Midorea?
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oh, i did not see the part about noni, dude i am tempted but i am not sure how that would work since i am trying to get a job too. and a place to sleep is not as important, money more important, if i have to choose between the two i would take money. pog is the last of my charity
the only thing he can stop paying for is all of our insurances and the cars(not mine, i bought it outright just in case of something like this), that is what he pays for, at this point the house is just coming from him working, there is no cost out for that we don't own the house it belongs to the company, he is dying of cancer and we all need vehicles, he has nothing he can cut everything is paid until the end of next month and we have no collateral, the bank owns everything of value, they have been draining every thing for the past several months to keep the family afloat, this is why i say we are at the end because we honestly are out of options, this is all that is left there is no money and the bank won't give any more |
Have you considered moving out and moving into a smaller place?
Why not get a job where she lives? I am sorry about your father and I know you might kill your mother but given the circumstances, you might want to consider knocking on her door at least until you can find money. I didn't mean stop paying for them entirely. I mean put them on hold so that they will not add more a hole in his account. Has he talked to the company? |
29 dollars in the bank sweetie, that is what i have
she lives two hours outside of town which is a school a gas-station and a grocery there is no putting them on hld pog, he stops paying we are all fucked you cannot /not/ pay for insurance and still drive and medical insurance is important to his well-being pog, i don't ant him to die yes, that is why we lasted this long, pog remember how last year i moved in with my parents? this started only a couple months after that, this is not a suden thing for anyone but me pog, this has been a long time coming |
also there is no 'might' if she dies this stops
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I thought every thing was settled and your father didnt have to pay anymore? Yes I know he was not getting refunded but they should not be taking it out of his check any more.
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no they are settling it, until it is over though he has to keep paying and that is several more months
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in 11 months though, if all continues as it is they can go to the supreme court for restitution though no idea how long it will take to see any of that
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like I said what is up with your fucking state and paper work? The proof is all there! Its commonsense why haven't they stopped it and thrown her ass in jail for a felony? |
no, it is the state of georgia
and because georgia sides with the mother, they see a mother who has two children and they see a piece of paper from the nineties saying she was to get childsupport and until then nadda, also, and this is my personal thought on the matter, they get part of a +100,000 dollar back-child support withdrawal for as long as she collects so why rush it? |
... u-u to that there is nothing I can say except that cell in a jail is starting to look amazing. I hope she gets what is coming to her with her life time because people that cruel should not exist.
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well they do and they thrive
so pog, you should tell me about your mom's job |
XD basically she has been waiting for a restaurant side of a service station to open, finally I guess they told her she could come work on the store side. Oddly oh yeah the other thing, so yesterday she talked to the manager at another place she filled out her application. However it turns out the lady is going to jail because she stabbed her boyfriend to death.
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wow XD at least your mom didn't catch her on a bad day
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I know! but evidently the lady had been abused and said enough is enough! Ker stab stab stab.
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way to go her then, getting it all back at once
would pog like to play on mana or mid? |
I'll go with Mid, I am having brain farts for every thing on mana unless you can accept "He sat down" as a post xD.
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pfft, i just either want faster post or to make monies
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XD I will go with making monies.
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pog is so pretty
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>< I feel asleep
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Is anyone here?
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xD is every one dressing like a hatter?
And thank you cho >.> you would not believe it started out as the white rabbit. |
I don't think so except me
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I think Kali is but that is because of the wonderland hang out.
How is echo today? |
echo is alright just a bit tired but that's it
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Awe, what is Echo doing that she can't sleep?
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I just woke up an hour ago; it's my bio clock telling me to get up and now I need to pick some things up and do my dishes.
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Ah, I should be doing that same thing but I want to laze about in bed today.
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i did my dishes >v> *lazes*
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Nice avatar it is very pretty.
xD I have not left my room. |
danke, spent half an hour building it and months making it XD it is nearly done
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