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Not going to the club I mean I'd rather dance in a crowd, I feel embarrassed when I dance in an empty stage. Good chance that if it isn't country music playing then no one would come
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Now i just don't know what you're talking about, who is dancing? XD.
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Basically I rather dance with a crowd of friends/family than all alone dancing (other than the father daughter dance and the first dance)
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╔═════════════════════════════════╗ (｡◕‿◕｡) We got married in the judges office with our twins, my mom and his dad as our witnesses. I rather enjoyed it, he did too, simple, easy. We did it that way because it was the day we were going to be married not a day to show the world how much money we have, which to me is every big wedding. ╚═════════════════════════════════╝ |
Well the fact is they're trying to show off money that they *don't* have. Many people take out big loans or second mortgages in order to finance their big weddings. It's disgusting. Reeks of dowry.
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╔═════════════════════════════════╗ (｡◕‿◕｡) That is disgusting. You should only do what you can actually afford with what you have in the bank and not go over board. A wedding is a special day that you promise yourself to the love of your life and not a big show off party to act like you are god and got the best of everything in life when in fact you most likely don't have anything good at all. To me most marriages don't work because one or both of the people became selfish. A marriage is a work together thing. Both of you have to work together, understand each other completely, agree with each other on the important issues. If you can't agree on how to raise children, then you can't make it work. Things like that have to be agreed upon, both of you have to follow the other with what they choose and not go against it. But most couples out there only worry about themselves. My husband's grandparents are like us, we share everything and understand each other and accept the other for who they are and not try to control the situation and marriage. We work together entirely and they worked out, my stupid mom controls her marriage and the bastard she married and their marriage is only going to last because 1- The guy she married is terrified to be alone so he's gonna stay in a mentally, verbally abusive marriage just so he won't have to be alone and 2- my mom won't have to work and she can spend all his money on stupid ridiculous things that she doesn't even need in a million years. She's a huge selfish bitch that doesn't have a marriage and if they both won't worried about having to fend for themselves they would get divorced. I know it. LOL I have a great marriage and my mom has a terrible one and she waited til she was in her really late 40's to get married for the first time, to my husband's father. But they deserve each other, both are losers and I hate to say this, but it's true, both should die, especially my mom. She's been a abusive person my whole life and she is abusing my kids and there is nothing I can do about it, and his father is a horrible dad, he doesn't even care about his own children and won't help them out no matter if they are seconds away from being tossed on the street with no where to go and no home and no money. But they deserve each other, both losers are together. By the way, I really hate my mom, really hate her, I'm impatiently waiting for her death because of what she's all done to me, my husband, my son and the children she stole from me. Poor kids are brainwashed into thinking they deserve the mental and physical abuse. ╚═════════════════════════════════╝ |
Wow... that's... disgusting. I can see your... disgust. But it's good to see that you have a good relationship with your husband, and that you appreciate the significance of it.
My parents have been married for... 33... going on 34 years. I realize more and more how odd that is. That kind of thing... I've always wondered how you could go about not knowing these things early on in a relationship. |
╔═════════════════════════════════╗ (｡◕‿◕｡) Hopefully people don't realize them because they are just plain stupid as heck and have no brain at all. Otherwise thinking over and over again that things will go away eventually is retarded because after awhile you will realize things aren't getting better but you keep on staying because you are getting something material from the marriage. Long marriages like that are rare, but it's really nice to see people can stay together for that long. I'm happy for your parents, they are part of a rare breed of people. Wished more marriages would work out. Most of them ruin kids lives, and some moronic people think that having a kid is gonna make the problems go away, which is even way worse, but that's people. Most of them are stupid as heck. >.>; ╚═════════════════════════════════╝ |
Yeah. I can't believe how lightly people take things like marriage and kids. Meanwhile, there are people who cannot legally be married, who are in life-long relationships...
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╔═════════════════════════════════╗ (｡◕‿◕｡) Those people know what the meaning of a relationship is though. Most married couples don't it seems. They just take advantage of it. I'm like the only person in my family who is truly in love with the person I married. My one aunt and uncle are bastards and she only cares for herself and not him and treats him like crap but for some reason they are still married after over 30 years. I have another uncle who married his third wife and they might be in love, don't know really. Then I have this other aunt and uncle who are married but they don't even live together. They lived together for over 7 years and became common law man and wife, then they got married by going to a judge and after a few years, she moved up north to build their house and he was gonna finish off the year at his job then move out, but something happened and now they don't really see each other at all anymore but won't get divorced. I think he cheated on her, but they really should get divorced if they can't even stay in the same zip code as the other. He barely even goes out there to see her. Not even every weekend or every other, too far of a drive for him he says. My grandparents stayed married til they died, I think they loved each other even though he treated her like crap all the time, they were born in the 20s and back then guys were raised with treating women like their property and my grandma, the sweet person she was, dealt with it no matter how much it hurt her. But when she died, he found out he had testicular cancer and didn't do a damn thing about it, he slowly painfully died. Thinking back about that, I think he did that because he missed her too much and didn't want to go on without her, even though the entire time she was alive he took her for granted. I might not of been married for as long as my family but I seem to know more about relationships than everyone else does. We both agreed that we won't get divorced so we are gonna make sure we work everything out. We don't want to become a stastic. Since we both come from broken families and our parents don't know the meaning of love, we have a really high chance of being divorced ourselves and we don't want that. ╚═════════════════════════════════╝ |
Aw, you sound wise.
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╔═════════════════════════════════╗ (｡◕‿◕｡) I spent my entire life watching people. I had no one to play with growing up so I would go outside and just watch how people acted. I became great at telling the type a person was within of seeing them for a second. And I never was wrong lol. And growing up I just watched my family more than I did anything else so that helped being able to figure things out better about life and relationships. ╚═════════════════════════════════╝ |
Aw... I'm not too excellent at reading types.
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╔═════════════════════════════════╗ (｡◕‿◕｡) It takes years of having no life pretty much lol. ╚═════════════════════════════════╝ |
I have lived years without a life according to some terms, but I think a certain sensibility is needed to start with, regardless of how much time one spends watching people. I watch people, but only observe and see that there are many types of people, not so much able to predict things...
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╔═════════════════════════════════╗ (｡◕‿◕｡) I watched them for so long I was able to tell what will happen with alot of situations. I really had no life growing up. ~_~ ╚═════════════════════════════════╝ |
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