So I am on page 7 and I am taking a break from reading to do some drawing.

and i am on 25 of night and still going XD

Your avis are cute!

and yours is pretty *listens to sig and gives hug*

-hugs little-

so what is wrong sweetie?

Its long... would you rather me pm it to you?

it is whatever you would be comfortable with

One my my hubby's lady friends came over at some point today while I was at work and they took a pic together and one of our other friends asked me "who is that" I'm like I don't fucking know.. now she is going to start drama..


But then another one of my friends had popped up saying there was a comment on one of her other pictures...

Guy~ "Is Mike your bf?"
Her~ no. im single. but we are talk talking. but we arent ready to be in a relationship.

So we stayed up until 3:30am talking.. it was finally a much needed talk.. We are both tried to trying.. What that means for me is trying to solve problems and nothing gets resolved. We both agree that we jumped the gun on getting married per say. But we want to be together. We also agree that there are problems that have gone on so long that we don't know how to fix.. So whatever the outcome, he wasn't it to be a mutual agreement..

he was saying if we get divorced.. he doesn't want a normal one.. he still want to be there in my life and that way we can work on the problems and maybe after some healing try again..

I don't know if I could handle still having him around.. I mean how can I heal and what not if he is still around?
Him and I in a very weird way are made for each other.. I don't want to lose him..

So we were going to separate but then he was like I don't want to unless its comes down to it..

I flat out told him I wasn't going to to this back and forth crap.. Its not fair on him or I to do that. He wanted to know my honest opinion and I told him. Then his mom came over and then he changed his mind..

About a month has past since this and very little has started to change..

*flops in* hi all... *yawns*

that.....poor sweetie, i do not know what to say to make you feel better

what is going on? o_o
*reads*

i can offer distractions though


hi lauv

correct me if I am wrong, but pocket, arent you the one that posted in the life styles about your husband not thinking you were beautiful?

Yep that was me... sorry for poofing

He hasn't improved his attitude since then?

And not to sound negative but have you guys considered a separation? That is the official legal status of my parents. It is not a divorce but it is pretty close to it with out it being in name. It would give you guys some time to think and work things out, if either one of you want to be left alone for a while.