The one in chocobo's avatar

i have a cat walking through me XD

OHHHH that kitty. Its cute

yeah, i am not sure who made it but it is adorable

Adorable critters are the best

Long time since you last saw Hero?

Yes, it was a looooong time.

Well there seems several people coming back , i think chocobo said she was away for 2 years? Maybe? I forget?

Yep, they were. As I was. I left two years ago and I kept lurking.

So what happened two years ago that caused a migration?

I got busy with my life and some other things too...that only needs to be talked about the PMs

Well i am glad you are over it and people are back.
All in time for a very merry christmas.

i am a he and yeah XD so many people were away for a long time, but tris is loads better now<3

I just call you they, is that okay?

And yes, it is loads better.

not really but i can't really stop you

Well, I use they because it's gender neutral. X3

some people don't like to be called 'they'. it is considered lazy and/or disrespectful when their gender has been proffered

Well, I shall call thee with your preferred pronoun then *nods*

thankyou<3


so today was productive<3 i send my grandmother a box through the post and she let me an awesome message on my phone XD apperently she ate a bananana and a chocolate bar right away XD

Awww~ that's so sweet of you, bubu.
While my day has been so....boring...

Well then chocobo is a he, sigh i hate remembering stuff.

I usually just go for she first because the least amount of people get offended by that.

-shrugs- i have enough trans friends/family that i am accustomed to having to mind my s' X''D

I have some too but no one ever minded which one i called them *shrugs*

It seems to me that there are more "she"s than "he"s on avatar sites, so it's a reasonable assumption if you're unsure. :P

Exactly and men on the net arent as offended being called she as women are being called he. At least that's my experience.

assuredly they mind but you have to understand that it's a very uncomfortable thing to /say/ you mind. a person's need to be recognized as something is much more acute when it is a fight and a struggle to get said recognition

You can't say that for people you don't know chocobo.
Some just want to be something for themselves not for others.

of course, chocobo makes it difficult because he doesn't have a proper avatar that people can imply his preferred pronouns from. :P

that's why I just try not to make any assumptions about anyone.

i actually actively say 'he' right away and even go out of my way to offer my gender in public places so it is easy to find out without having to ask. i want to make it so i am not making people uncomfortable in that department, hell on most site i have been on i put it in my signature

i have actually been debating putting it here too since there are so many newbies

sometimes I correct people when they get mine wrong, sometimes I don't.


just depends on how I'm feeling that day.

totally fair~ when i was a teen i was so andro(and dressed so andro) people would confuse me often so there would be days where i would correct and days i would not bother XD

I always figured you reveled in people being unsure, AC.

yessss! >:D

well, less so lately. That was fun, back when I was less sure of my own gender, but now I generally prefer female. There's a reason I made that fairly unambiguous with my username and avatar here.

Ah, alright. :P

"Anna Claire" definitely leaves no questions, unlike "Lysis."

yup, you got it! :3

and 'chocobo'? XD or is that something only a bill can discern?

Admittely, cho, I thought you were female before you told me otherwise.

well i /do/ talk like my grandmother and dress like a great grandmother XD