Yeah I went through all of that with my ex boyfriend, but he was pretty good about not using his credit cards for stupid shit. I've always been too cautious with my finances but I feel like it's really important to save, and to have that security.
Aww, sorry to hear all that. People can be really cruel to our community. I'm assuming you are in a gay relationship. We have to keep fighting to matter what. I'm somewhat dealing with it myself, but I have to keep reminding myself that I am strong and things will get better. I do miss seeing you around, you were one of my good online friends. Do you have a Facebook?